Cognitive Distortions: Thinking Traps Tool

A free, private tool to catch unhelpful thinking patterns. Write down a thought that is bothering you, then check it against common thinking traps used in CBT. Nothing you type leaves this page.

What are cognitive distortions?

Cognitive distortions are habits of thinking that make a situation seem worse than the facts support. The idea comes from cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), developed by psychiatrist Aaron Beck in the 1960s, and was later made widely known by David Burns in his book Feeling Good.
Everyone falls into these thinking traps sometimes. They become a problem when they show up often and start shaping how you feel about yourself and the people around you.

How to use this tool

Choose a thought from the last day or two that brought on a strong feeling. Write it down exactly as it came to you, then tick the thinking traps that seem to fit. The tool then gives you questions to test the thought against, and asks you to write a more balanced version.
The aim is not to force yourself to think positively. A balanced thought is simply one that fits the facts more closely. Rating how strongly you believe the original thought, before and after, helps you notice whether anything has shifted.

When to talk to someone

If the same thoughts keep coming back, or they are starting to affect your sleep or relationships, working with a psychologist can help. Individual therapy and counselling at Khud Aagahi draw on different approaches, chosen to suit you and what you are working through. Sessions are online, and the first step is a free 15-minute consultation.

Frequently asked questions

No. They are common thinking patterns that everyone falls into at times, especially when stressed or low. When they happen often, they can feed anxiety and low mood, so learning to notice and question them is a common part of therapy.

There is no single official list. You may see lists of 8, 10, 12 or more. One of the best known is the list of 10 in David Burns’s book Feeling Good, which includes all-or-nothing thinking, mind reading and catastrophising. This tool focuses on the ones people meet most often.

Thinking “I failed this test, so I am a failure” is labelling. Assuming a friend is angry because they did not reply is mind reading. Expecting the worst possible outcome is catastrophising. Using “should” and “must” for yourself is another common one.

The first step is noticing the thought and naming the trap. Then ask what the evidence is for and against it, and what you would tell a friend in the same situation. This tool walks you through those steps. With practice, a more balanced thought comes more easily.

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